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4 Life Path number

Dating a 4 can be boring and challenging. However, when it comes to long-term commitment, 4s are solid as a rock. If you are meeting a 4 lady for the first time, you've probably already spent considerable effort just getting the date. It undoubtedly helps to dress conservatively and pay close attention to details. Make sure you made a reservation in advance, even if the restaurant does not normally require that, and, please, don't go to a low-class, cheap joint. This lady is into quality in all aspects of life, and that includes a potential mate. Don't be flashy, don't show off in any way and don't give excessive tips. Do, however, remember her last name, anything she ever told you about herself and what day of the week it is, she really does not like forgetful people.

If dating a 4 lady is challenging, dating a 4 guy can be excruciating. However, if he falls for you, you will have gained a prince, a servant, a protector and a manager, all in one quick swoop. To get his attention, dress conservative and practical. A light blouse with a low cut on a cold evening will get every guy excited ... except a 4. Talk about your career and plans, but keep it realistic. Ask him about his plans, then sit back and feel free to wonder off to la-la-land -- it will take some time. He may seem boring, but he is also warm, loyal, trustworthy, dependable and truly devoted. You could do worse.

5 Life Path number

The most sensuous of all numbers, getting a date with a 5 lady is not easy. First, you have to compete with all those other guys, then your pickup line will have to be truly original, funny and respectful, and then, maybe then, you might get a date. But what an opportunity! A first date with a 5 lady is usually memorable, and even if there is no follow up, you will treasure the memory. Your challenge is to be not just smart and dynamic, but also unique, open-minded and tolerant. You must be willing to show your vulnerable side without even the slightest whiff of self-pity. Self-depreciating jokes are particularly appreciated, and if you can show that you don't take yourself too seriously, you have a chance of a second date!

A first date with a 5 guy is just about as lucky as you can get. However, be very, very careful. He is smooth, funny and seemingly harmless. He will listen to you with all the attention you deserve, show understanding and compassion, sit across from you with his top buttons open and make sure you can see his expensive Italian shoes -- and all the while dreaming about ... well, there is a reason they call the 5 the most sensual number. So keep your wits together, don't be fooled and have a great time. He will probably tell you stories about his travels and adventures, and while they may be a little embellished, chances are he has travelled extensively. One thing is for sure, you won't be bored and you won't be lacking attention.

6 Life Path number

The first time you date a 6 lady, you will probably wonder what it is you are feeling; this sense of security and warmth, like you are in a comfort zone you didn't know existed. That, my friend, is the power of the 6. The tenderness, the sincerity, the hospitality, all these qualities she radiates are real. She is the ultimate seducer, the mother you always wanted, the safety zone that will melt any and all insecurities. In every man, no matter how old, there is still that young boy, and when you are in the company of a 6 lady, that young boy is happier than a little dog in a big yard. So you want to impress her and get to know her better. She wants to know that you follow your heart more than you mind, that you will sacrifice yourself to help someone less fortunate, that you are not afraid to show your feelings and, most importantly, that you are loyal. The only trouble is, you can't fake any of these qualities, because this 6 lady is anything but dumb.

Much of what describes the 6 lady also applies to a 6 guy. His warmth is real, his loyalty is real and you can take his word to the bank. He is probably a great catch, but there is a dark side; he can be annoyingly subservient, like a doormat. If you want to make an impression, tell him you want a big family and that you enjoy nothing better than cooking a big meal after driving the kids all over town in your minivan.